A surgical consultation is not only a place to hear what can be done. It is a place to understand why a specific approach is being recommended for you.
Use the conversation to clarify your goals, the surgeon's experience with the procedure, the likely scars, the recovery timeline, the major risks, and the limits of the result.
It is reasonable to ask what alternatives exist and what happens if you wait. A decision with real cost, recovery, and medical risk should survive more than one emotional afternoon.
Robin's perspective here is educational, not surgical. Individual decisions belong with appropriately credentialed medical professionals who can evaluate you personally.